Angry… SO ANGRY!

This evening, I went over to the unit I moved out of (50 feet away from where I am now) to make sure the garbage was all out on the curb.

I opened the gate and just about screamed.

My entire garden… Ten years of planting… Ten years of love…. was gone.

When I moved into the new unit. I had made sure that maintenance and the Move in/Move out committees knew that I wanted my garden and that it would take a little time to move them. I was assured that I had until the fall to move them as many plants need to be moved after they are done for the year… not when they are blooming. All my neighbours knew I was going to  be moving my plants and knew that I wanted them.

Apparently, the person who did it was someone from Landscaping.

When one of my neighbours (who was one of the people I had made the arrangement with to delay moving my garden went up to her and told her to stop because I wanted my plants, she daid “too bad!” and continued.

To make things even more outrageous is that this is the SECOND time someone on Landscape has taken it upon themselves to rip out or order someone to rip out my garden.

Two years ago, when they were replacing the fences, the Chair of Maintenance which is the committee responsible for the fence replacements came over and we went through the garden and we worked out what needed moving and what needed protecting. I had my nephew over and told him what to do. He was doing it when someone from Landscape came over and ordered him to tear everything out… I came home and found my garden destroyed.

I managed to salvage some of the plants and replaced what had been destroyed. The garden was almost back to it’s former glory… and now this…

Although they replaced the back and side parts of the fence two years ago, they appear to be replacing the entire fence, again, including the new parts. This may have been the impetus but there was absolutely no reason for them to just barrel in and start tearing it out.

I could see if they had contacted me and given me a deadline and I didn’t do it…. But they didn’t.

They didn’t contact Maintenance (the Chair who knows me and knows I wanted my garden). They didn’t check with my neighbours who all know I was going to be moving my garden over the next while AND where I am. AND it isn’t as though I moved out of the co-op altogether! I am 50 feet away and was home the day she took it upon herself to rip out my garden.

I fired off an email to the Board and the Landscape Committee demanding an apology and suggesting that I should be reimbursed for the plants that I can replace (the clematis cannot be replaced…). I also said that there need to be rules followed so that this never happens again.

I am so angry I don’t know if I will be able to sleep…


  1. July 3, 2010 at 2:43 am

    I’d be furious! Spitting rage.


  2. azahar said,

    May 28, 2010 at 2:33 am

    What a mess. But yes, what’s done is done and best to move on.


    • mudhooks said,

      May 28, 2010 at 2:58 am

      Thanks! I am having one of those days so the hug was very much appreciated…

  3. Sandy said,

    May 27, 2010 at 6:41 pm

    Sorry, Sis. It’s certainly hard to experience such inconsiderate behavior on the part of others. Remember though that they will not be feeling the anger you feel towards them. Only you will feel the anger and therefore only you will be the worse for that anger.
    Love you…

    • mudhooks said,

      May 27, 2010 at 6:48 pm

      It’s true… I went out this morning and she was working on the front garden. I confronted her and it didn’t end well. After I had a chance to cool down, I spoke to her and I have decided to let it go. I have moved some of my plants and some I will just leave. I don’t have the energy or the time to get bent out of shape over this.

      We made a sort of peace and I am fine with that.

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